10 Habits Successful People Give Up To Increase Their Productivity
Success is not by chance; it is result of long term effort and endeavors.
Successful people grab opportunities, take risks and give up a lot, to be at
the highest point in their lives. Successful people are not granted anything
without effort or by luck; these are just excuses average people made to make
themselves look good in their own eyes.
If you want to be among the successful people, stay on top of the game
and want to achieve all your goals, give up these habits and join the elite
club.
- Successful people don’t give up where their comfort zone ends.
Challenging your own self is the ultimate point of success. You challenge
yourself when you push beyond your comfort zone and that is the point when your
success story begins. When you go out of familiarity and control zone, then you
take risks and try new things. Every risk taken and every new thing tried is a
step forward on the road of success.
- They don’t measure success in financial terms
Money brings peace of mind and predictability for future but money does
not define your success. Successful people are more concerned with their growth
in terms of character, public standing and their positive contribution to
society and their loved ones. Having multiple touchstones of success helps to
keep things in perspective and gives multiple dimensions in life.
- They are not shy of questioning and asking for advice
Asking for advice from mentors or coach or someone experienced gives a
new facet, a new point of view of the same situation. When you ask advice from
trusted people, you get the chance not to repeat mistakes others made and you
come out with possible solutions and options. Questioning is sometimes
difficult but at the end of it questioning makes you learn new things and as
they said asking a question makes you a fool for a moment but not asking makes
you a fool forever.
- They do not make excuses for failures
Putting burden of your failure on circumstances, nature or other people
is sure short way to deceive yourself. No one is responsible of your success of
failure except your conscious decisions and choices. When you take
responsibility of everything happening in your life, you are bound to make
efforts in positive direction towards success.
- They don’t follow, they lead
Successful people take the less travelled route, they take positive
risks, make things happen for them and thus people follow them. They are the
ones who are inspiring for others because they are more established internally
and externally. Only following the leaders will only make you among the average
people who did the safe things and thus only achieved the predictable.
- They do not stop learning
Learning is a never ending process. When you stop learning, you stop
going any further than where you are. Learning from others and from your own
experiences is crucial for moving forward. You learn both by your mistakes and
by right decisions. Everything you experience is your chance to learn.
- They do not judge themselves by others’ opinions
Everyone has their own perception and their own set of values. You have
your own set of problems, solutions, circumstances and values. So there is no
point in trying to please everyone and to achieve a common set of everything
with everyone. This is impossible and a futile practice.
- They do not set blurry generic goals
Your goals define your personality. Having vague and generic goals means
you do not have anything to measure your success against, you cannot monitor
your progress against generic goals. For example, I want to be on top of my
career is simply a vague statement but I want to be CEO of my company or I want
to be in the list of top ten professionals in my field is a solid goal.
- They do not live in the past
Past is unchangeable and beyond control but today is what you have. Today
is all you have that you can change or control or make available for yourself.
Learn from your past and move on. Spending too much time and effort on past
means you are sacrificing your future for your past and this is not something
anyone can afford if they want to be successful. Living in the past deprives
you to enjoy the present and to work towards your future.
- They do not resist change
People resist change when they fear it. Accommodating the change that
comes in your way and to adapt to the new situation saves a lot of time that
you would otherwise waste in actively or passively resisting change. On the
other hand, changing yourself positively is key point in moving forwards.
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